July 15, 2008

More Las Vegas: In Praise of Cabana Boys & Laker Girls

Img_2732_2 Even on vacation, I tend to wake up on the early side. That was actually a good thing on this trip, as my husband was eight time zones away and I wanted to talk to him before we got going - and he went to bed.

The rest of our group was still fast asleep, so I slipped out to find a quiet spot where I could make a phone call - and while I was at it, I did some hotel reconnaissance.

The casino is relatively quiet at 7:00 a.m. - but not quiet enough for good conversation. I made my way past the fine dining restaurants, away from the shopping center to one of the two hotel Starbucks... and found the hallway that leads to the complex's convention center.

Bingo.

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July 14, 2008

The California Games

I can't believe I began the summer lamenting that I wouldn't be taking any vacations this year.

Instead, I ended up planning several short road trips. The result: Plenty to write about -- but little time to do it!

I just got back from watching Megan compete in the California State Games, which is a kind of youth Olympics event, complete with young athletes marching in to witness the lighting of the torch. As the march-in was Friday night and her meet was Sunday afternoon -- and the event was in beautiful San Diego -- we made a weekend of it. My sister and her family planned a short stay in Mission Bay to coincide with it, so it was a full family affair...

...which means that breaking away to write was a near-impossibility. Hell, my husband and sister complained every time I glanced at the steady stream of email I was receiving on my Blackberry. You have no idea how much trouble they would have given me if I had gone hunting for a hotspot so I could write.

This is why I have not been online since Thursday afternoon (when the Internet in my home went down for several hours). As of this time last week, I was putting the finishing touches on part 1 of my post about our Las Vegas trip -- and promising to finish the half-done draft recounting our experiences in Palm Springs the previous week.

Those posts remain half-done drafts. And in three days, I am flying up to San Francisco for BlogHer.

Can you say "over extended"?

So... this blog will be taking a non-linear turn this week, as I jump around in time so I can catch up before BlogHer.

We'll start with the trip we just finished: San Diego.

I wish I had photos to show you of the opening ceremony for the California State Games. It really felt like the real deal. For one thing, it took place at Qualcomm Stadium. For another, there must have been thousands of youthful participants, as the march in to the stadium seemed to go on FOREVER. The really cool thing is that the entire proceeding was broadcast onto the stadium's jumbotron -- so I got to see the joyful expressions on the faces of my daughter and her teammates as they entered the field.

The reason I don't have photos is that I almost didn't make it to the Stadium on time, having opted to stay at a four-star Priceline-booked downtown hotel instead of the cheap Mission Valley inn on the trolley line, with the rest of the team. I had dropped Megan off with her coach so I knew she would arrive along with them -- but I wanted to have my own car so I could boogie when the whole thing was over.

The road leading to Qualcomm was bumper-to-bumper, and just as I got there, my cell phone froze on me. This put me into a panic: How was I going to find the other parents? How was I going to find my kid? I managed to get the phone working again by removing and replacing the battery -- but I was shaken. I was already at the ticket booth when I realized I'd left my camera in the car. I had no desire to run back to fetch it.

After what seemed like hours (I had NO IDEA there were so many kids who play softball - I don't think there was an empty field in all of San Diego last weekend!), the ceremony began with a drop-in by about a dozen Navy Seals... who literally parachuted onto the field, ending with one holding an American flag for the Star Spangled Banner. Yeah, it was kind of hokey -- but really cool at the same time. That was followed by some speeches about the value of youth athletic programs and some Gong-show ready entertainment.

The program ended with a pretty nice fireworks show.

Then came the ordeal of catching back up with our kids. As much time as it took for them to march IN to the stadium, finding them after the event took even longer. At least, it felt that way. It was nearly 10:00 p.m. by the time I had my daughter back -- neither one of us had eaten dinner. Fortunately, my sister and husband (who had driven down after work and was already relaxing with the family at their hotel in Mission Bay) were waiting for us. We phoned them a room service order and found a late dinner waiting for us when we caught up with them -- just in time to catch our second fireworks show of the night, emanating from nearby Sea World.

Img_2514 Saturday was our time to kick back, and we decided to do so at my sister's hotel. She and her family stayed at the Mission Bay Hilton, which is right on the bay, so it boasts a small beach, a dock where you can rent boats and jetskis, tennis courts, a spa -- and a fabulous pool (which was adjacent to a fabulous bar that serves truly fabulous pina coladas).

We figured we could get the best of both San Diego worlds by moving our party downtown for the evening. We dined on excellent tapas at Cafe Sevilla in the Gaslamp Quarter (which was within walking distance from our downtown hotel). The food was plentiful...and reasonably priced.

Sunday's gymnastics meet was a lot like any other... except that our team rocked! Megan and her friend Wesley both took first place All-Around prizes for their ages -- and the top three for most events featured at least one of our girls.

I would have pictures of this but for a nasty surprise when I turned my camera on: I must have dropped it somewhere, because I could not access any of the menus. Instead, all I could see was something that looked like a crack on the screen INSIDE the camera.

"Just go to the store where you bought it and get it fixed," my husband suggested.

The last time I tried that with a digital camera I was told it would cost nearly as much to fix as it would to buy a new one. It is also extremely unlikely that, should it be reparable, I could have it back before I go to BlogHer on Thursday. At any rate, future posts will be without photos for the foreseeable future.

It's a good thing I got some in on the half-finished posts that will be going up BEFORE I get to San Francisco.

July 10, 2008

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July 07, 2008

Las Vegas: There's Gold in Them Thar Windows!

Img_2638 Our destination was on the other end of the strip, so we decided to take a cab.

"Isn't that our hotel?" my daughter asked.

"No, Megan. That's the Mirage." Her friend Maggie sounded exasperated in the back seat.

I can't blame Megan for mistaking the Mirage for Mandalay Bay - both are huge buildings covered in gold-tinted windows. I'm pretty sure Las Vegas has more gold-tinted windows than any other city in North America.

It was Megan's first visit to the adult playground that is Vegas, and it may as well have been mine. I made a point of gathering up all the quarters sitting in our "Coinstar Box" -- only to discover that today's slots only take bills and credit cards. I'll never repeat the experience of dropping 75 cents into a slot to kill some time -- and ending up with a $150 jackpot. When you use spare change, it doesn't feel like gambling. But sliding a $20 or a credit card into a machine is a commitment; one I am not equipped to make.

So it's a good thing our traveling companions are not the high rolling types, either. This whole shebang was Mary Ellen's idea: She saw a window of opportunity between the time our girls got out of school and next week, when their 30-hour-a-week summer gymnastics program kicks in.

"We can get a cheap room by going Monday through Wednesday," she said. "And it's even cheaper if we share."

As I was feeling a little bit sorry for myself that my husband was visiting his family in Wales without me (a decision we made mutually because of the devalued dollar), this seemed like a great idea. I was in.

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July 06, 2008

Welcome Home, Hubby

It's a big day in the Mills family: After two and a half weeks in the UK (without us!), my husband is coming home.

It's been a weird holiday. My hub is a lot like our daughter: Both are a tad high maintenance. They crave a lot of attention from me, and as I would have a lot fewer interruptions while he was away, I anticipated catching up on a lot of projects.

I didn't even come close. A funny thing happened after I dropped him off at the airport on June 19: I felt overwhelmingly lonely. It was Megan's last day of school and she was going straight to a friend's house for a big party and theoretically, I had 12 hours to write, to catch up on paperwork, to clean, to research...

...I did none of that. I couldn't focus. I ended up watching R-rated British television shows on DVD (stuff I can't view when the kid is around), and missing everyone terribly.

Megan had another birthday party the following day -- only this time it was a sleepover. Again, I did a lot of NOTHING, and I was the first parent to show up at the birthday girl's house for pickup on Sunday.

His absence was one of the reasons I accepted so many PR offers over the last couple of weeks (which I am still trying to write about). It's why I took a short trip of my own to Vegas last week (which I'll post about tomorrow - or Tuesday).

I get weirded out when my husband isn't home. I rarely mention it on the blog until after the fact... you never know who is reading this thing. And I tend to get really paranoid about it late at night. I know it's a little strange, as I lived alone as a single gal for many years before I met him. But that was in a garden-style apartment building with a little courtyard and a lot of neighbors and we all looked after one another. The house we live in now is on a decent-sized lot and a street that gets more traffic than I would like; I'm not all that friendly with our neighbors. When my husband goes away on business (or to visit his family), I find myself wishing we had a dog. At any rate, the overhead light in the living room has been on 24 hours a day since he left. I can't wait to turn it off.

But most of all, I can't wait to get him home, distractions and everything. My husband makes me laugh. You can see how in his guest post below, where he reports on what it's like to go to Wimbledon (and have rental car trouble and deal with an old, incontinent dog and lots of other things).

July 05, 2008

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July 04, 2008

Guest Post: SoCal Dad Does Wimbledon

Sirbaldilocks Greetings my fellow peeps and peepettes. This is Gareth, husband to SocalMom. But you can call me Sir.

After many years idling in the background, I have finally been honored with the opportunity to post on here.

I can’t mess this up. So, no bad language or inappropriate innuendo allowed, just intellectual witicisms. Dunno if I can do that. Oh well.

The End.

…….. Gareth.

Uh, for my inaugural post, I am in Wimbledon, on Court Number 1.

But first some background. The only reason I am in Britain at all is because of Wimbledon.

But this post wouldn’t be as entertaining if I didn’t tell you all (I have lots of fans) of the lead-up to my Wimbledon trip. And you know what ? Everything in this post you are about to read is travel-related, which is what Donna’s blog is all about. How thoughtful of that is me !! Um …. how thoughtful of me is that ?

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July 01, 2008

So Much to Blog, So Little Time

I may be putting up several posts today - or I may not. It depends on whether I've got wifi in the cabana we have rented for the day.

Yes, we are out of town again and I have lots to say about that. But I still haven't finished the posts about our Palm Springs trip last week... and I'm expecting my husband to do a little write up of his visit yesterday to 1st court at Wimbledon!

In the meantime:

The Summer Travel Get Road Ready Contest has ended and a random drawing has produced three winners!

Reader Rhoda has won the second prize of the Get Road Ready kit with products to make it easier to travel by car. And the winners of the two Nintendo DS game consoles (and Crosswords games to go with them) are Kelby Carr, and Elizabeth of Busy Mom.

I have a new post up at Los Angeles Moms blog... and one of my MOMocrats posts can be seen at Huffington Post.

Watch this space... there's more to come...

June 30, 2008

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